20 going on 21 !!

NOW SERIOUSLY !!! What's the big deal ? I mean what's the difference when you turn from 18 to 19 and from 20 to 21?? It's a just a question of a year or so right? Then how is it that you suddenly are expected to know and do things which you haven't bothered about for all these years? I mean you're suddenly expected to behave 'responsibly' !! I ask you , what do you mean by the word responsibility?? As far as I know , you're supposed to study well , behave well with people around you and yea lay off all adulterated stuff which I AM DOING like a good girl . Suddenly you are expected to help in the kitchen 'like all girls do' , it does not matter whether you have a cook or a servant there to do 90 percent of the job , you're supposed to 'learn', why? because 'one day you'll get married and then what will you cook for your husband??' ewwwwwwwww.. I mean that is like the corniest , tackiest and a Godamn sexist comment . I mean nobody taught me what to do and how to do anything when I worked on my first patient !! Nobody taught me how to walk when I was a toddler , these things were a part of a learning process which I know I will learn because I know for a fact that by the grace of God I'm blessed with SOME intelligence if not a lot and if there ever be an opportunity where I have to live alone , trust me I'll be anything but helpless !! So don't teach me what I have to do and what I don't , I'm very much aware of my 'responsibilities' thank you very much !! I am going to 21 in this coming August , I'm in my early 20s , and I plan to experience life and enjoy my life to the full extent because I don't know when I'll have the opportunity to do so ever again , I want to experience the effects of natural drugs like adrenaline and dopamine to the full extent . I plan to take the wise saying of 'work harder and party harder' very very seriously . So don't peg me down as the sit at home , docile domesticated dumb girl because that is the last thing I ever want to be !!!!!